Sandy and my husband David have been friends since high school. David and I got engaged by mail while he was still in Vietnam. Sandy, wanting to make sure his friend wasn't screwing up, drove all the way to Southeastern Ohio in a snazzy little sports car to check me out. While showing Sandy the sights in the old mining towns, we ended up driving down an alley that was higher in the middle than the car could handle, and we lost the muffler. Sandy was disgusted, but never lost his cool. Luckily, we found a garage that could repair it, and it was not long before a crowd of local boys gathered, big eyed, full of questions. So, while the car was being fixed, Sandy was in his element. No one in that part of Appalachia had seen anything like that car!
As a footnote, my mother couldn't understand why I wanted to marry David when there was such a cool guy as Sandy out there. His friendship, his wit, his ornery little boy smile will be sorely missed.